It would seem like an easy question to answer…

...but so often it becomes all too difficult to conjure up an accurate response:  “How are you?”  There’s the trite I-don’t-really-want-to answer-answer: “fine” or “good.”  There’s the wanting to portray positivity answer: “We are truly doing great…so many great things in life!”  There’s the I’ve-had-a-toilet-bowl-day-answer: “not so hot” or “I gotta say, I’m tired.”  But somewhere there is the hey, if-someone-really-cares-to-honestly-ask, I-don’t-even-know-how-to-begin-to-honestly-answer answer.  We all have had these split second responses in attempts to evaluate just HOW we are truly doing.

We took a bit of a break this weekend to do just that together.  Well, kind of.  It may seem cheesy, but we just needed to stop to evaluate just how we are doing….in life—at camp, in our marriage, on our journey with God, with others, in our fiances, our goals, dreams, desires, evaluating past, present, and future.  We prayerfully desire to be intentional with our days and to care for one another through each day.  Ah, it was as sweet as dark chocolate gram-crackers with a very small kick of that oh so slight bitterness that makes you want to take another bite.  (If you’ve ever had one, you’d know what I mean…)

It is good to ask how are we?!?  Ah, what a work in progress we each are…....Hmmmmm…......
What areas in life we need to simplify and how?
What ways will will try (by God’s grace) to make different from last year?
What is the single most important thing we could do to improve the quality of our marriage in this season?
What do we need to restructure financially?
How can we care for and be good stewards of what has been entrusted to us—-people, home, responsibilities, God’s word? 

So, how are we?  We’re doing okay…....  smile 

Recent Responses:

  • April Says:
  • 02/18 at 07:19 AM
  • Laura,

    I can just hear your voice as I read this.  We appreciate you two very much and look forward to how the Lord will grow our friendship in the years to come.  BTW when are you coming over for fondue????  grin

  • Tawnya Says:
  • 02/18 at 01:54 PM
  • Thank you Laura for always being that person in my life to ask how am I doing and truly wait for an honest answer!  I appreciate your willingness to give me an honest answer too!  So glad you had a wonderful weekend togethertaking the time and space needed to reflect.

  • viv Says:
  • 02/18 at 04:48 PM
  • so happy you had some sweet time together. jesse and i are being more intentional about this this year too. it is so good to just stop and check in. as jesse read, if we think our business is important enough to evaluate we should give the same credit to our homes. i love this time with him. even if ours happens in the car drinking coffee by ourselves b/c we’ve been kicked out all the places around here b/c they close at stinkin 9 or 10. don’t they know couples need a quiet place to re-evaluate life and some of us can’t do it during normal business hours?

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